Loneliness is a choice. I guess that's somewhat obvious but as many of us have found, making long-lasting friendships when you're older can be difficult. We're no longer just looking for party pals to hang out and pick up cute boys. We also want those go-to girls when the world is yucky and confusing. That's why I resonated with this story. It reminded me if we want good friends-- we have to show up as one first.     READ HERE